Just a quickie?

I am not a feminist.

Nor do I make statements.

I like men; sometimes more than women.

I like women; sometimes more than men.

But most times; both are equally fascinating.

Exploring my own femininity; seems only fitting, as I was and still am a woman last time I checked.  Yet observing men; how they dress comfortably/sensibly for the weather, eat what they want, go after what they desire and generally just ‘get on with it’ better, to me, seems sensible. If not extremely logical. Simple and smart. Stressing about boobs slipping from cold chicken fillets, or having to wear Band-Aids because shoes are a nightmare, never become an issue for the man. This is quite a biased view, but men seem far more relaxed about life.

After a few years awkwardly trying to be a tip-top gal myself. I gave up due to the fact I felt like a fraud and instead decided in favour of pro-comfort. A form of activism, true to my heart. Intergrading a few life pointers observed via the male species, which looked to provide a higher-ratio of level headed sanity for woman-living. Although behaving not so ‘girly’ does see a drop off in male attention; for breeding purposes. Leaving the animal arena behind with its raging hormones. Genitals left in the ring of the subconscious. Opting for less interaction, but high quality conversation. Giving the brain profound electrical stimulus it needs yet so often lacks. Sometimes, men may even start talking about buffalo grass; if your lucky.

I’ll happily move over and give the ladies who want to be eye-candy more of a chance, whilst in turn providing men with a smaller surface area to hunt. Who am I to judge, I didn’t say I wasn’t humanist.

27 responses to Just a quickie?

    • Jessie Martinovic – Author

      Or more so attention. Nothing wrong with any of it, just circumstance preference, I guess?

      Buffalo grass is a type of grass, easy to grow, doesnt need much sunlight.

  1. It’s so much easier and less heartrending to go with Sexy comfort. Nothing wrong with wearing more flats than sky high heels designed to kill your feet and any in a 1 mile radius. Lol.

    • Jessie Martinovic – Author

      I’m with you Ruby; plus I really enjoy going for strolls and chatting. But if one day I woke up and wanted to wear heels I wouldn’t hesitate. Or lipstick for that matter, either 🙂

  2. It’s all nonsense anyway. You are much better just being yourself. I mean, who else are you gonna be? Keep the revolution alive, Jessie! 🙂

    • Jessie Martinovic – Author

      I dont know if many ppl know themselves; to be themselves? It seems ‘other people’ are their hobbies.

      Revolution haha more like a re-look-solution 😉

    • Jessie Martinovic – Author

      i.e ‘gee, that guy was a dick!’
      ‘Yes, his genitalia had literally taken over his concious, and began communicating with limited vocabulary’

      It’s not uncommon. For women it’s probably more like ‘what a bitch!’.

  3. Loving the way your brain works. And yes, we could all probably use a re-look-solution.
    My daughter told me today that her two favorite songs are Fireworks (Katy Perry) and Shake it Off (Taylor Swift.) To be horrified or celebrate? I’ve decided to celebrate. I think maybe she’s finding her own re-look-solution, six-year-old-girl style.

    • Jessie Martinovic – Author

      oh, thank you so much. Celebration for sure! I think that’s the prime ‘self’ state. From there we seem to loose it, get hurt, become closed, and then hopefully begin the journey back to that age. I always thought we are who we are around 5-6, and usually what we love then, is what we always love and wish to pursue in life 🙂

      books and art were mine, how about you?

      • Ha! Yes, books and art were mine, too. I wanted to write and illustrate a book about a family called The Pickles, to be exact. I also wanted to be on one of those talent shows so I could be discovered for my awesome singing voice and unbelievable dance moves (neither of which I actually possess.) Luckily the art and books actually panned out. 😉

      • Jessie Martinovic – Author

        must of missed your comment!

        The Pickles; that is the most brilliant thing ever! Please do it, please, please. Oh, you have? Direct me to it please 🙂

        I leave my singing and dancing to ‘waiting for the kettle to boil’, ‘car jams’, ‘shower shows’, and ‘people’s un-ready ears’.

    • Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and being you. Your honesty and openness can be a lesson to men and women alike.

      • Jessie Martinovic – Author

        your kindness bleed through, thank you so much 🙂

  4. You have to be your ‘self’. Trying, dressing, practicing, to be someone else, just won’t make it.
    Great post, honest, sincere.
    Thank you very much for following me. Eddie

    • Jessie Martinovic – Author

      Yes you are very right, harder said than done …Thankyou for your kind words eddie 🙂

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